April 24, 2023: My Dung's Reception Into Postulancy

With Great Joy and Celebration

With great joy and celebration, on Monday April 24, 2023, Thi My Dung Nguyen was admitted as a postulant to the Sisters of Our Lady of the Missions (RNDM). Several members of My Dung’s family joined her and the Winnipeg RNDM Sisters in giving thanks for God’s fidelity, and for My Dung’s response.

Together we prayed, in the words of Joyce Rupp, that God would continue to pour transforming love into our lives

“Like a spring rain falling into the open soil, so your love and ours is mixed and mingled into an energizing oneness.”

Together we acknowledged that God’s

“presence is the power we need to grow and to change.”

We asked that God’s companioning of My Dung, and of each of us, would

“bless us all with confidence and quiet strength as we embrace this new journey together.”1

The Scripture Reading for the ceremony was from 1 Samuel 3:1:9 – God’s call of Samuel – and was proclaimed in English and Vietnamese. As a response to the Reading, The Magnificat was sung in Vietnamese.

Following that, we blessed oil and anointed My Dung for service, praying that God would give her

“wisdom, strength and a discerning heart for this next step in her vocational journey.”

We asked that God would

“bring her to a deeper understanding of the Gospel way, in the light of your servant Euphrasie Barbier, and lead her to the joy of a life fully committed to you.”

Sr. Denise Kuyp Blesses Oil Held by Sr. Nwe Ni Oo
Sr. Denise Kuyp Annoints My Dung for Service

Our prayers for My Dung were multiple: that she might find direction and the fulfillment of her heart’s desire in this community; that her joys and sorrows, hopes and fears find welcome and peace here; that she find in us, sisters of Euphrasie Barbier, faithful companions on her journey; that her family and our community become true friends all along the way; and that God, who is always for My Dung, always alongside her, and within her, be a constant guide and her deepest companion.

The community then gathered around My Dung, laid hands on her, and prayed for/with her as we sang Joe Wise’s song: “Bathe her in Your Love”:

Bathe her in Your love,
Clothe her in Your care.
Send her along
with the wind and a song
and the rains of the earth in her hair.

Fold her in Your arms. Hold her close once more.
Colour her life with the calm and the strife,
that brings us all onto the shore.

… Light her way back home. Love her as your own.
For thus she has been, and will be again,
and is now, forever, Amen.

Blessing My Dung

Being a postulant is the first stage of becoming a Sister of Our Lady of the Missions. During this year, My Dung is living in community with other Sisters, and learning more about participating in an RNDM way of life. On a daily basis – involving communal prayer, study, and service – she further discerns her vocation to religious life. Welcome My Dung!!

My Dung signs register

Everything is Connected

“To tell the story of anything, you have to tell the story of everything.”2

This quote from Thomas Berry, describing the inherent relatedness of all creation, is also reflected in the discoveries of contemporary science. Everything created over the 13.8 billion year story of the cosmos is connected to everything else. And everything connected, is also in motion.

I have two recent stories of connection that illuminate this dynamic.

The first story is of two young women, My Dung Nguyen and Nguyen Thi Thuy Trang, originally from Vietnam, geographically separated for years, who recently re-connected in Canada. They did so at the April 24 reception of My Dung Nguyen as an RNDM postulant, in a simple ceremony at an RNDM house in Winnipeg.

Now, some background to this story. Over ten years ago, as university students in Vietnam, My Dung and Trang both boarded at the RNDM student residence in Thu Duc.3 One year, an opportunity arose for interested students to go to Kon Tum Province, located inland in the Central Highlands region of Vietnam.4 Student volunteers would be living and working with RNDM novices, who were going for a “mission experience” in Kon Tum.

That experience was transformative for both women. Working among those made poor, and living with the Sisters in Kom Tum, they each felt a sense of call, in deeper ways than they had previously known. Their sense of call involved becoming religious, and was so strong that they both decided to change their university majors to what they thought would be more aligned with being a Sister. My Dung switched from law to nursing, and Trang switched from economics to education.

In the meantime, My Dung’s family’s application to immigrate to Canada had come through, and this created another unexpected dynamic. My Dung was faced with the choice of remaining in Vietnam or going to Canada with her family. She chose to go to Canada. She got a contact name from the Sisters in Vietnam, and one cold winter’s day in 2012, after she had settled into life in Canada, she came to meet the province leader of the RNDMs in Winnipeg.

That was about ten years ago. My Dung maintained contact with the Sisters, as she finished her nursing degree, and worked with her family to start a business. Towards the end of 2022, My Dung decided that “the time has come”, and she asked to be received as an RNDM postulant.

Meanwhile, back in Vietnam, after finishing her university studies, Trang followed through on her desire to become an RNDM. She spent many of the last ten years being initiated into the life of an RNDM, learning more about RNDM purpose, history, and spirit, learning about religious vows, and participating in RNDM life and mission. Towards the end of this lengthy time of formation, Trang applied to make final vows, and her request was approved.

She then needed to learn English, because the 6 month time of discernment and renewal, prior to making final vows, is conducted in English. Trang was accepted to study English at the University of Regina, and arrived in that city very early on a cold December 16 morning in 2022. She will continue her English studies until April 2024, before joining other Sisters preparing for final vows, in Davao, Philippines.

Now, returning to the point where the lives of these two women intersected in Canada. My Dung and Trang met each other again in Winnipeg, when Trang travelled from Regina with other Sisters, to celebrate My Dung’s becoming an RNDM postulant. Their joy in re-connecting at this important moment of My Dung’s commitment, is reflected in the accompanying photo.

The second story of connection that was catalyzed by My Dung’s entry into religious life, is of a beautiful congratulatory card sent to her from ten women who are presently postulants in Vietnam. This card featured prominently in the prayer service where My Dung was received as a postulant in Canada. This card too has an accompanying photo.

Card to My Dung

The Postulants in Vietnam do not know My Dung personally. When they learned that she was becoming a postulant in Canada, they reached out to her in welcome. Across the continents, their solidarity and care reached My Dung, and touched us all. The presence of the postulants in Vietnam was palpable during out time of prayer, and the celebration that followed.

Indeed, everything is connected.

Veronica Dunne, RNDM

1 Joyce Rupp. The Cup of Our Life: A Guide to Spiritual Growth. Ave Maria Press 1997 & 2012.
2  Thomas Berry in Neal Rogin & Christine Funk video. “The Awakening Universe” (San Francisco: The Pachamama Alliance, 2006).
3 Thu Duc is a suburb of Ho Chi Minh city.
4 Kon Tum Province is near the borders of Laos and Cambodia.